Will I still be able to get back the money owed to me?

A loved one has yet to give you back the money he or she owes you. Is there hope to get the debt repaid? Financial expert Jerry O'Brien provides some valuable tips.

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Highlights
  • There are four criteria to look at when lending someone money.
  • Take emotions out of the debt. Be professional and draft a contract.
  • Don't jeopardise your own family's well-being when lending.
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"The worst case scenario of lending money is not being repaid. There's always that risk of ruining a relationship when you lend money to someone related or close to you. It's awkward when money is involved."

Financial expert Jerry O'Brien shares what you need to do to avoid the worst case scenario and to hopefully keep the relationship you have.

 

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Criteria in lending money

According to Jerry, there are four things you need to look at before lending money:

1. The trustworthiness of the borrower and how long you've known each other

2. The history of the borrower, i.e., how many times has he borrowed money in the past and how capable is he of repaying

3. The scenario, i.e., how will a person's life change if you help out

4. The effect on you, i.e., how much of a hit will you take if you lend money

Draft a formal contract

In order to take the awkwardness out of the situation, Jerry suggests to take emotions out of it and draft a formal contract.

"This isn't a common practice amongst Filipinos. Oftentimes, we do it verbally. I've learned that a formal contract benefits both parties."

He shares that it's important to include the amount being lent, collateral and the timeframe for repayments.

"Typically, anything more than 12 months is not advisable because collecting becomes more difficult.

"If repayments aren't given within the timeframe, ask that an interest be given as a form of compensation. Discuss with the borrower how much interest both of you are comfortable with.

"Make sure you have an open, transparent conversation."

The 'whatever' funds

Jerry shares that he and his family have a "whatever funds", laughing "It's a practical term because we use it for 'whatever'. This where we get the money we can lend out."

He shares that restricting the source assures you that you set a limit on the amount you lend out.

"Don't go beyond that and jeopardise your own family's well-being. It's ok to help but, make sure you help yourself first.

"If you really arent capable of helping, dont force it. If you can avoid it, don't lend money; but if you can't draft a contract."

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Disclaimer: This article is for general information only. For specific financial advice, you should consider seeking independent legal, financial, taxation or other advice to check how the information here relates to your unique circumstances.

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3 min read
Published 19 October 2021 4:35pm
Updated 12 August 2022 3:00pm
By Edinel Magtibay, Nikki Alfonso-Gregorio

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